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工作20年后我才明白:別讓你說話的方式,毀掉你的優勢
發布日期:2019-12-23 08:44:51       作者:魯南制藥集團       瀏覽:2504
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SUOYOUSHEHUIGUANXIDEJIANLI,DOUSHICONGYICHANGDUIHUAKAISHIDE。


LUOJISIWEICHUANGSHIRENLUOZHENYUCENGSHUO:


“HUIJIAOTANDERENSHENSHANGHUISANFACIXINGGUANGMANG,GUSHI、REN、ZIYUANDOUBEITAXIYINLEGUOLAI。DANGNIKAISHIXUEHUIHEMOSHENGRENJIAOTANDESHIHOU,NIJIUZHAODAOLEHEZHENGGESHIJIEDELIANJIEFANGSHI。”


YANHUITING、CANZHUOBIAN,ZOULANGLI,CHASHUIJIAN……JIHURENHEYIGECHANGJINGDOUKEYICHENGWEIYUOUYUDERENJIAOTANDESHIJI,ERSUOYOUDEZAIZHEXIECHANGJINGXIAFASHENGDEJIAOTANDOUKEYIYONG“small talk(WEIJIAOTAN)”LAIGAIKUO。


在《牛津字典》中,這個詞被解釋為:和不熟悉的人談些不重要的事。


ZAIKUAWENHUAYANJIUZHUANJIADAISUKANLAI,DAIZHUSHEJIAODEXINTAI,HEMOSHENGRENLIAOSHANGJIJUMEIYOUQINGXIMUDE、MEIYOUMINGQUEYIYIDANHENYOUYISIDEHUA,HUIWEINIMENJIANGLAIDEHEZUOCHUANGZAOHENDADEKENENG。


她在新書《微交談:如何提升與陌生人的社交力》寫到:重要信息都是在非正式渠道流通的,重要關系也是在非正式渠道結成的。


ZUOWEIYIMINGKUAWENHUAGOUTONGZIXUNSHI,DAISUZHILIYUBANGZHUZAIHUAWAIQIHEGUOJIHUADEBENTUQIYEJINGLIREN,JINXINGKUAWENHUAZIXUNHEPEIXUN,KEHUBAOKUOPINGUO、OULAIYA、ALIBABA、TENGXUNDENG。


ZAIZHAODAOZHETIAOLUZHIQIAN,DAISUHUANSHIYIGEBUSHANYULIAOTIAN、BUXIEYULIAOTIANDEZHICHANGXIAOBAI。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appZHIZHIFAXIANTIQIZIJIDEMINGZISHI,TONGSHIMENDOUHENMOSHENG,TACAIDUNJUEZIJIZAIYUTARENJIANLILIANJIEDENENGLISHANGCHUXIANLEQUESHI。


YUSHI,TAKAISHIYANJIU“WEIJIAOTAN”DAODISHIZENMEYIHUISHI,BINGKAISHIJIEZHUXIANTANKAIQIYOUXIAOSHEJIAO。


ZAIMEIGUOZHIMINGGONGLIYANJIUXINGXUEFUMALILANDAXUEDUSHUSHI,TACENGTONGGUOYUCHUCIJIANMIANDEXIAOCHANGPANTAN,PKDIAOYIZHONGBENTUXUESHENG,SHENQINGDAOLEJIANMIANXUEFEIBINGTIGONGSHENGHUOFEIDEXIAOYUANXINGZHENGGANGWEI。


XIUWANSHUOSHIXUEWEIHOU,DAISUZHIJIEQUDAOQUANQIUZUIDADEGONGGONGFUWUTIGONGSHANGResCareHUASHENGDUNZONGBU,DANRENZHONGGUOXIANGMUJINGLI,ERZHECIJIHUI,YEYUANYUTAYULAOBANCAJIANERGUOSHIDEYICIWEIJIAOTAN……


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YIXIA,SHIDAISUDEZISHU:

1.學會微交談,能在關鍵時刻彎道超車

 

电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appZAIGEIGUONEIDEQIYETONGSHIMENZUOPEIXUNDESHIHOU,WOFAXIANTAMENDADUOSHIJIJIANGBEIDUANQIPAIZHU,HUOSHICHANGQIPAIZHUDAOGUOWAIDEYUANGONG。


TAMENCUNZAIYIGEGONGTONGDEJINENGDUANBAN,JIUSHIsmall talkDENENGLI。


QISHIZHEGECIHENNANFANYICHENGZHONGWEN,“WEIJIAOTAN”TINGQILAIYEBUSHIHENHAOLIJIE。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appFANSHIYUYANDANGZHONGBUTAIHAOFANYIDE,YIDINGSHIWENHUADANGZHONGCUNZAIMOUGEQUESHI,YINWEIYUYANDEBIANJIEJIUSHIWENHUADEBIANJIE。


WOMENZHONGGUORENDEWENHUAXINGGEGENYEZIHENXIANG——WAIMIANKEHENHOU,DUIMOSHENGRENFANGBEIXINHENQIANG,BUTAISHANYUSHIFANGDUIMOSHENGRENDESHANYI,DANSHIYIDANTUOQUWAIKE,HUIFAXIANLIMIANKONGJIANYOUDAYOUROURUAN。


ERXIFANGSHEHUIDEWENHUAXINGGEXIANGTAOZI,WAIPITEBIEBO,DUIMOSHENGRENGENDUIPENGYOUDETAIDUHENRONGYIYIZHI,DANBIEWANGLE,TAOZILIBIANYOUYIGEYINGHE,KONGJIANYETEBIEXIAO,YINWEITAMENJIQIZHUZHONGGERENYINSI。


SUOYIHENDUORENCHUGUOZHIHOUCAIFAXIAN,ZAIYIXIESHANGWUCHANGHEBUZHIDAOGAIZENMELIAO,GENTONGSHIYEJINJINSHIGONGZUOSHANGDEJIAOLIU,ERMEIYOUZUOZHEZHONGsmall talkDEJIAOLIU。


DANQISHI,ZHONGYAOXINXIWANGWANGSHIZAIFEIZHENGSHIQUDAOLIUTONGDE,ZHONGYAOGUANXIYESHIZAIFEIZHENGSHIQUDAOJIECHENGDE。


YOUQISHIDANGNIXIANGZAIGUANJIANSHIKEWANDAOCHAOCHEDESHIHOU,WEIJIAOTANNENGTIGONGJIEJING。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appYIWOWEILIBA,GANGQUMEIGUODUSHUSHITEBIEJIONGPO,SHOUXIANZUOWEIXUESHENG,WOXUYAOZHIFUXUEFEIHESHENGHUOFEI,BIYEYIHOUXUYAOQUZHAOGONGZUO。


ZAIYIGEWANQUANMOSHENGDESHEHUI,MEIYOURENHERENJIGUANXIDEQINGKUANGXIA,WOGUQIYONGQIJIEsmall talkZHENGQUDAOLEDIYICIJIHUI。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appDAOLEMALILANDAXUEWOFAXIAN,DAJIADOUZAIZHENGQUXIAOYUANLIDEXINGZHENGGANGWEI,ZHEFENGONGZUOBUJINNENGTIGONGSHENGHUOFEI,HUANNENGXUEFEIQUANMIAN。


WOYESHENQINGLEHAOJIGE,DANDOUMEICHENGGONG,YINWEIDOUBEIMEIGUODANGDIXUESHENGQIANGDAOLE,DANGSHIXINLIHENBUPINGHENG。


TINGSHUOXUEXIAOLIDEKAIFANGCANGUANRIDANGTIANXIAOCHANGHUILAISHI,WOTIQIANKANLEXIATADEZHAOPIAN,ZUOLEYIXIEGONGKE,RANHOUZAIDANGTIANKANDAOTASHI,WOJIUZHUDONGSHANGQIANGENTALIAOQILAILE。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appWOXIANJIESHAOZIJILAIZIZHONGGUO,DUIXUEXIAOBAOYANGLEYIFAN,HUANTILEJIJUXIAOCHANGDEZHENGJI,TATINGLEZIRANHENKAIXIN。


RANHOUWOCAIMANMANQIERUZHENGTI,SHUOWOZHEDUANSHIJIANZAIXIAOYUANLIMIANZHAOGA(Graduate AssistantshipYANJIUSHENGZHUXUEJIN)DEGONGZUO,DANZHEXIEGONGZUOQUANDOUSHIBENDIXUESHENGZAIZUO,ERGUOJIXUESHENGKENENGGENGXUYAOZHEGEJIHUI。


TALIMAJIUMINGBAILE,RANHOUJIUBAWOLADAOYIGEJIAOMacDERENPANGBIAN,WENTADEBANGONGSHISHIBUSHIYOUYIGEHESHIDEZHIWEI。


JIEGUOJIUSHI,WOSHUNLINADAOLENEIGEMINGE。


WOMENYAOMINGBAI,ZHEGESHIDAIYIJINGCONGSHURENSHEHUIBIANCHENGLEMOSHENGRENSHEHUI,ZAIZHEYANGDEHUANJINGZHONGSHENGCUN,JIUXUYAOYOUGENMOSHENGRENDAJIAODAODEBENLING。


如何在第一時間用第一句話吸引別人的關注,是每個人都需要學習的技能。


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2. 向上管理+橫向管理,不做“佛系職場人”

 

ZAIZHICHANGZHONG,WEIJIAOTANDEZHONGYAOXINGJIUGENGBUYANERYULE。


ZHICHANGRENQISHIDOUXUYAOJUBEIYIDINGDELINGDAOLI,YITIDAOLINGDAOLI,YOUXIERENJIUHUIGENZHIWEIGAODILIANXIQILAI,ZHEWEIMIANGUOYUXIAAI。


RENHEREN,ZHIYAONENGTONGGUOYUTARENXIEZUOWANCHENGGONGZUO,JIUSHIYIGEYOULINGDAOLIDEREN。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appZHEZAIZHICHANGZHONGSHEJIDAOLIANGGEFANGMIAN,YIGESHIXIANGSHANGGUANLI,YIGESHIHENGXIANGGUANLI。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appHENGXIANGGUANLIJIUSHIYUTONGJIDERENXIEZUO,ERXIANGSHANGGUANLIHAOXIANGBIJIAOKUNNAN。


QISHIBURAN,NIYAOXIANGXIN,ZIJISHIKEYIGUANLIDAOLINGDAODUINIDEQIWANGZHIDE。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appQUDAOYOUHENDUO,CHULESHUMIANGOUTONG,ZONGJIEHUIBAODENGDENG,LINGWAIYIGEZHONGYAODEQUDAOJIUSHIWEIJIAOTAN。


NIYOUMEIYOUGENLINGDAOLIAOGUOTIAN?LIAOTIANDECISHUGOUBUGOUDUO?TAXINZHONGDEZHIYELANTUNIZHIBUZHIDAO?NIGENLINGDAODEZHIYESAIDAOSHIBUSHITONGYIGEFANGXIANG?


ZHEXIEZAIZHENGSHICHANGHEZHONGTAYIBANSHIBUHUIJIANGDE,DANSHIZAIFEIZHENGSHIQUDAOJIUYOUKENENGLIAOCHULAI,NIXUYAOZAIDUOCILIAOTIANDANGZHONGJILEIXINXI。


JUGEJIANDANDELIZI,JIASHELINGDAOGEINIDINGLEYIGEMUBIAO,BINGMEIYOUGEINISHEZHISHIXIANQIXIANHEJIANCHADEBIAOZHUN,NEINIJIUDETINGXIALAIGENTAQUEREN,BINGQIEZHIHOUZAIBAQIXIANSHAOWEISUODUANYIDIAN,BABIAOZHUNZAISHAOWEILAGAOYIDIAN,DIJIAODESHIHOUTAHUIFEICHANGJINGXI。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appZHEYANGYILAI,HENRONGYIJIUHUIGUANLIDAOTADUINIDEQIWANGZHILE。


SHENZHIDANGNIYOUJIAXINYIYUANDESHIHOU,NIGANBUGANQUGENLAOBANLIAO?


YOURENSHUO,WOMENGONGSIMEINIANDOUGUDINGJIAXIN,MEIDELIAO,NEIYEBUYIDING。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appGONGSIMEINIANGUDINGJIAXIN,SUOYOURENDEBILIDOUBUYIYANG,KENENGNIDEJIAXINBILIGENNIDECHENGCHANGSUDUSHIBUCHENGBILI,RUGUOZHEJIANSHIQINGYIJINGKUNRAODAONI,SHENZHINIDOUXIANGFENRANLIZHILE,ZAIZHEZHONGQINGKUANGXIA,LINGDAOSHIXIWANGNIGENTALIAOYILIAODE。


ERQIE,JIAXINSHENQINGBINGBUZHISHIDIGESHENQINGNEIMEJIANDAN,DEXIANSHUOZAIXIE。


KEYIXIANTANYIXIALINGDAODEKOUFENG,SHUOYIXIANIDEMUBIAOHEJIHUA,RUGUOSHENQINGJIAOSHANGQUHOUMEIBEIHUIFU,NIZAIGENTALIAOLIAOZIJIDECHAJU,ZIJIZAINAFANGMIANSHIXUYAOTISHENGDE。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appCONGZHEER,NIHUIZAICIGUANLIDAOTADUINIDEQIWANGZHI。


TAZHIDAONISHIDUIZIWOQIXUHENGAODEREN,ERBUSHIMEIYOUNENGLIANG、QUEFAREQINGDE“FOXIQINGNIAN”。


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3. 職場溝通切忌情緒化,做一個職業化的人


QISHIHENDUOSHIHOU,ZHICHANGRENPINDEBINGBUSHIJIEGUO,ERSHIGUOCHENG。


SHENMEYISI?JIUSHINIYAORANGDUIFANGZHIDAONISHINULIDE,NAPAJIEGUOBUHAO,LINGDAODOUYOUKENENGGEINIYIGEHUIXUANDEJIHUI。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appHENDUORENYIWEIYOULECHENGJICAIHUIYOUJIHUI,HUOZHEMEIYOUSHILIZHIQIANDESHEJIAODOUSHIWUXIAOSHEJIAO。


QISHIZHEGESHUNXUSHIBUDUIDE,WOMENZAISHEJIAODESHIHOUCAIHUIHUODEHENDUOJIHUI,RANHOUZAIJIHUIDANGZHONGNIKEYIQUMOLIANZIJIDEBENSHI。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appDANGRENDESHEJIAOQUANGUANGLE,SHIYEGENGSHANGYICENG,NENGLIZIRANYEHUIGENGSHANGYICENG。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appWOMENBUJINYAOGENTONGSHI、LINGDAOJIAOJIEGONGZUO,GENGYAOXUEHUIYONGWEIJIAOTANGENTAMENJIANLILIANJIE。


GONGZUOJIUSHIWEILEJIEJUEWENTI,ERWENTIBEIHOUQUANBUDOUSHIRENZAITUIDONG。


RUGUOWOMENZHIHUIGENRENJIANLIZHICHANGSHANGDEGONGZUOGUANXI,ERWANQUANBUDONGJIANLIFEIZHENGSHIQUDAODEFEIZHENGSHIGUANXI,HENDUOWENTIZUIZHONGKENENGGENBENWUFAJIEJUE。


WOCENGJINGJIUCAIGUOQINGXUHUADEKENG。


JIDEYOUYIGEXIANGMUWOTUIJINDESUDUBUGOUKUAI,YOUWEITONGSHIFAYOUJIANZEGUAIWO,HUANCHAOSONGGEILELINGDAO,YIXIAJIUBAWOJINULE。


WOHUIDEYOUJIANDIYIJUHUAJIUSHI“ZHEBUSHIWODECUO”,HUANZUOLEYIGEJINZITAZUOWEIZHICHENG。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appFAWANWOJIUHOUHUILE,YINWEIWOZHIDAOZHEMEZUOZHIHOUHUIYOUSHENMEHOUGUO,RENGRANXUANZEQUZUOSHIKEYIDE,SHIDUDEFANUKEYIZHANSHIZIJIDEYUANZEHEDIXIAN。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appDANWODANGSHISHICHUYUCHONGDONG,SHIXIANBINGMEIYOUXIANGQINGCHU。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appHOUMIANWOTOUTOUDIXIANGCHEHUILAI,DANSHIMEICHENGGONG。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appBUCHUSUOLIAO,NEIGEBEIWODUIHUIQUDETONGSHIRIHOUGUOLEHENCHANGSHIJIAN,HUANZAIGONGZUOZHONGGEIWOSHEZHIZHONGZHONGZHANGAI。


SUOYIZAIZHICHANGSHANG,WOMENXUYAOZUOZHIYEHUADEREN,ERZHIYEHUADERENGENSHENGHUOZHONGDERENSHIBUTAIYIYANGDE。


JIAOTANJIUXIANGBIAOYAN,KENENGYOUJIHUAYEYOUJIXING,BIRUSHUOWOBUXIANGQUZUOSHEJIAO,YINWEIWOJUEDESHEJIAOHENJIA。


DANSHEJIAOBINGFEIYAOQIUNICONGZHENZIWOWANQUANTIAODAOJIAZIWODANGZHONG,ZHEYANGNIKENDINGHUIJUEDEZIWOBEIPANHUOZIWOFOUDING。


WOMENYAOZUODESHI,ZAIZHENZIWOHEJIAZIWODANGZHONGZHAODAOYIGEJIAOJIQUAN。


NEIGEJIAOJIQUANZAIXINLIXUESHANGCHENGZUO“JIANKANGDEJIAWO”,HUO“SHEHUIHUADEZHENWO”,ZHEGEQUANYUELAIYUEDADESHIHOU,RENJIUCHENGCHANGLE。


ZHESHIWOMENZAISHEJIAODANGZHONGYINGGAIDAODADECHENGCHANGJIEDUAN,SHOUXIANYAOSHUOFUZIJI,SHEJIAOBUYINGGAIYOUPIANJIAN。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appZHENZHENGDESHEJIAOBUSHICAOZONGSUOQU,ERSHIHUZHUHEZUO。


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appWOMENYOUZIJIDEZHUANYEZHISHIHEBEIJING,YOUZIJIDERENMO,HUANYOUZIJIKANSHIJIEDESHIJIAO。


當一個人在釋放愛和能量時,旁邊的人一定會自然地向他靠攏。


寫在最后


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appDUIYUZHICHANGRENLAISHUO,XUEHUIWEIJIAOTANYOUWEIZHONGYAO,SHUOCUOHUABUYAOJIN,ZHONGYAODESHIYAOGANYUKAIKOU,BURANZENMEHUIGENWAIJIEDACHENGLIANGXINGHEZUONI?


电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appJISHIXIANGDAISUZHEYANGDEKUAWENHUAGOUTONGGUWENYESHIMOZHUSHITOUGUOHE,YIBUYIBUCONGZHICHANGXINRENZOUGUOLAIDE。


TASHUO:


“職場人非常有必要通過主動攀談,建立與周圍人士的情感鏈接,修好橫向管理和向上管理這兩門功課。只有這樣,才有可能獲取更多關鍵信息和成長機會,在想要彎道超車的時候,找到成功的捷徑。”

电子竞猜平台,英雄联盟竞猜appWENZHANGLAIYUANYU“CHAZUOXUEYUAN”WEIXINGONGZHONGHAO